Tradisi Bermaaf-maafan Sebelum Ramadhan

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Kali ini akan kita akan membahas mengenai sebuah tradisi yang banyak dilestarikan oleh masyarakat, terutama di kalangan aktifis da’wah yang beramal tanpa didasari ilmu, tradisi tersebut adalah tradisi bermaaf-maafan sebelum Ramadhan.

Mereka yang melestarikan tradisi ini beralasan dengan hadits yang terjemahannya sebagai berikut:

Ketika Rasullullah sedang berkhutbah pada Shalat Jum’at (dalam bulan Sya’ban), beliau mengatakan Amin sampai tiga kali, dan para sahabat begitu mendengar Rasullullah mengatakan Amin, terkejut dan spontan mereka ikut mengatakan Amin. Tapi para sahabat bingung, kenapa Rasullullah berkata Amin sampai tiga kali. Ketika selesai shalat Jum’at, para sahabat bertanya kepada Rasullullah, kemudian beliau menjelaskan: “ketika aku sedang berkhutbah, datanglah Malaikat Jibril dan berbisik, hai Rasullullah Amin-kan do’a ku ini,” jawab Rasullullah.

Do’a Malaikat Jibril itu adalah:
“Ya Allah tolong abaikan puasa ummat Muhammad, apabila sebelum memasuki bulan Ramadhan dia tidak melakukan hal-hal yang berikut:

1) Tidak memohon maaf terlebih dahulu kepada kedua orang tuanya (jika masih ada);
2) Tidak bermaafan terlebih dahulu antara suami istri;
3) Tidak bermaafan terlebih dahulu dengan orang-orang sekitarnya

Namun anehnya, hampir semua orang yang menuliskan hadits ini tidak ada yang menyebutkan periwayat hadits. Setelah dicari, hadits ini pun tidak ada di kitab-kitab hadits

Mengkhususkan suatu waktu untuk meminta maaf dan dikerjakan secara rutin setiap tahun tidak dibenarkan dalam Islam dan bukan ajaran Islam

Namun bagi seseorang yang memang memiliki kesalahan kepada saudaranya dan belum menemukan momen yang tepat untuk meminta maaf, dan menganggap momen datangnya Ramadhan adalah momen yang tepat, tidak ada larangan memanfaatkan momen ini untuk meminta maaf kepada orang yang pernah dizhaliminya tersebut. Asalkan tidak dijadikan kebiasaan sehingga menjadi ritual rutin yang dilakukan setiap tahun.

Wallahu’alam.

Penulis: Ustadz Yulian Purnama

Sumber: indonesiabertauhidofficial

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